Why would he still talk to me when I know he’s not interested in me? Learn why this happens
Any relationship, even long-term ones, can go down the drain if feelings of attraction and interest begin to wane. If your man starts to lose his interest in you, does this mean the end of the world for you? And do you think this guy will still want to talk to you once he’s declared that he’s not interested anymore?
Their first reaction may be to distance themselves from you.
This guy is unsure how to deal with you right now. Of course, it’s obvious, he hurt you by admitting his loss of interest in you. It will be hard to bring back what has been shattered, so don’t make a forced reunion with him.
He may talk to you depending on how your communication worked.
Were they good friends even before they became an item? If so, this guy might not want to burn any bridges, so he might (but there’s no certainty here) still talk to you after his confession. Now it’s up to you if you still want to be friends with him.
Was he able to tell you something?
If so, he may still be able to talk to you after saying that he has lost interest in you. Once again, you are in control if you still want to talk to him or if you already want to break your ties.
Was it another woman that made him lose interest in you?
It would be foolish to keep wanting to talk to him if the reason he left you is to go off with another woman. It would be wise to move on instead of hoping that you can still have a decent friendship with him. This is your pride that has been hurt here and you are a woman so it is not right that you still want to get in touch with him.
But if offered…
Let’s say this guy offers to meet you after he’s made his shocking confession, then it’s up to you to decide. Would you listen to his excuses? There’s really no guarantee that talking to you one more time can heal the wounds he created.
He can still talk to you if he has any unfinished business.
For example, if he wants to collect his things from your house… then he has to talk to you. As painful as it may seem, it would help if you ask him to take what he needs from your house when you’re away. In this way, confrontational scenes can be avoided.
If he asks you to explain…
…you have the option to allow it or not. But if you are deeply hurt, there is no need to force yourself to listen to it. Realize that you are no longer required to give him your full attention. If you still want to hear what he has to say, then you can meet him. But be prepared for the consequences that may occur.
