Timely Marriage – How to Position Yourself for a Timely Marriage
It is God’s plan that all His sons and daughters marry at the right time. God does not delight in your loneliness when you should have been married. Do you want to get married on time? The following points can be a flight that takes you there:
1. Prayer – Nothing good comes easily and since marriage is a good thing, you need to take it seriously at the altar of prayer. Most people don’t bother to pray about their married life until they are ripe for marriage. It is better that you start praying early enough before you are ready for marriage. If you find out that many people in your family got married late, then you had better start breaking the curse of marital delay in your life.
2. Forgiveness: If you want God to act on your married life, you must forgive people who have offended you in the past. Most of the time, those who experience marriage delay hold a grudge against the people who jilted them in the past. Until you forgive, your heavenly father will not answer you and the devil is still empowered by your relentless spirit to place a lien on your marriage.
3. Be friendly: If you really need a husband or wife, then be friendly. If you’re the type to be hostile to people, no one will want you as a suitor. Be accessible; stop hindering yourself to get married on time. Marriage is friendship. Learn to make and keep friends.
4. Don’t be picky: It has been found that some of the people who experience marriage delays now actually caused it due to their attitude of being too picky when they are in their prime. Throw out your entire list of standards; do not specialize in physical appearance or material things. His future glory may be hidden now, it takes a spiritual person to discover it.
5. Right Location: Always strive to be in the right location and the right company. You cannot be looking for a partner in the middle of the married. Join the singles forum and attend their meetings.
6. Build Self-Esteem: Develop the mindset that you are someone who deserves to be admired and respected. Celebrate your facial appearance, hair, and body structure. Stop putting yourself down. Don’t allow this emotional weakness to push you into marriage error.
