Secrets to Attracting Women: Why 90% of Guys Fail
No matter how much we women try to fool ourselves into thinking that we are completely individual people and that there is no way to really attract any woman, there are several things that never fail to get a woman interested in a certain man. the other men in the bar/club/lounge. The following are the traits that attract and appeal to all women, regardless of their appearance, age, interests, etc.
Don’t dress like a bum: While this may seem obvious to most and comical to some, a simple look around any bar/club by any woman (trust me!), will reveal many completely clueless men dressed like trash. Now, don’t get me wrong, this is not snobbery and the point is not to try to appear as rich or wealthy as possible, simply created to look good.
Women go to great lengths to prepare for a night out on the town, hours in advance. We design different outfits to decide what to wear, do our hair (we often redo it several times), bathe, use creams and make up, and much more, just to prepare for an average night at a club. Now, why would a girl who put all that time and effort into looking good go out to flirt with a guy in a dirty T-shirt and jeans with (oh what style) a baseball cap? She thinks again. If she looks like she just fell out of bed, she plans to go back there, alone.
Trust: No matter what a woman tells you about the type of men she likes (“nice, sweet, considerate, etc”), I’ll tell you the real secret of what women really want in ANY man. , and that is trust. It is undoubtedly the most attractive thing for each and every one of the women. Why do you think so many smart, attractive, and successful women date such jerks and put up with their lies, mistreatment, BS, and drama? It’s not the fact that the guy is a jerk that they like, it’s the simple fact that most jerks are confidantes. Being confident without being a jerk is the biggest twist any woman could hope for.
Humor and intrigue: all women love mysteries. This doesn’t mean you have to be aloof or rude, but at the same time you have to realize that most men talk too much about themselves (and bore us to tears!). Just don’t give it all away, save a few bits of information (a cool hobby, an exciting vacation you took) and tell them about it another time. By remaining a bit mysterious, you will not only be way ahead of the competition, but you will also have a quality that fascinates most women.
Also, humor is important. Surely you have heard the phrase “Make her laugh and you have her” or something similar. Being spontaneous and fun is so sexy because you not only convey a sense of humor, but also intelligence and confidence, all at the same time! If you’re naturally witty, this may be like Viagra for the right woman! Just remember not to overdo it (you risk coming across as “trying too hard”) and don’t joke about taboo topics (like religion, politics, or crude humor).
These are the “killer 3” rules that 99% of women respond to, and used together correctly, they are your secret seduction weapons.
