How to seduce a woman like a player
There is a small percentage of men who have the most success with women. We all know someone who’s a gamer, you know, those guys who seem to automatically know how to seduce a woman, and do it like magic.
In my quest to learn what these players do, I found that there are some surprising commonalities that they share. And if you too adopt these attitudes and practices, you too will go from zero to hero when it comes to girls.
However, before I continue, I must warn you that what you are about to read, despite the fact that it has been proven to work, is highly controversial. So if you’re offended by truly crude and politically incorrect frank words, hit the “Back” button now.
The first thing that virtually all gamers have in common is this fundamental belief: “Women want sex as much as I do.” Men who aren’t gamers believe the opposite, that women don’t like sex and have to be tricked somehow. This negative belief becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that sets them up for failure.
The second belief that virtually all successful seducers share is this: “It’s up to me to take the lead when it comes to sex.” Here, too, is a big mistake that many of us make. Instead of prompting the interaction, we feel fear and instead allow the woman to lead the rejection. The result? Lots of sexual frustration.
You see, unfortunately, women have a difficult challenge growing up in our repressed society. If a woman acts on her sexual urges (such as dating and flirting with random men), she risks being labeled a “slut” and shunned by most people.
So instead, what a woman should do is let the man take the lead when it comes to seduction. She then she is able to reason to herself that “this guy blew my mind” and “I couldn’t help it”. That allows him to stop thinking and let himself be carried away by her feelings.
Now that you have these two insights (ie, women love sex as much as you do and want you to take the lead when it comes to sex), there are two actions you need to take.
The first action is to let everything you do and say be something that balances the logical side of the woman’s mind with the emotional side. So instead of saying, “Let’s go over to your house to be alone together,” you should say, “Unfortunately I don’t have a lot of time, but I’d love to stop by your house to see those pictures from your trip to Florida.”
The first statement sets off alarm bells with her yelling, “I’m moving too fast with this guy!” The second of her puts her mind at ease because it’s a totally innocent reason for the two of you to be alone.
(By the way, even if you have a lot of time, it’s good to pretend you don’t. This is a technique called “fake time constraint” that puts her at ease.)
Again, you want to keep the woman’s emotions ENGAGED and her logical mind CALM. Emotions are involved because she feels great. Her logical mind calms down because she has an innocent explanation to bring you home with her.
The second action of the seductive masters is the concept of “two steps forward, one step back.” Women enjoy being teased and don’t just want a straight line progression from kissing to kicking boots.
So, for example, when you unhook the woman’s bra, let go and return to a much earlier phase of the make-out session. (Roke your fingers through her hair and kiss her, etc.) Then, much later, after you’ve gone through all the phases, go back to where you were when you undid her bra, and then do one more step to intensify it (like sliding your bra off). bra straps). Then it goes back to a much earlier phase, like sniffing at her neck.
It is really a simple formula. Two steps forward, one step back.
In conclusion, seducing a woman comes down to four things:
1. The firm belief that he loves sex as much as you do.
2. Willingness to take the initiative and be responsible for the seduction, which frees her from having to feel like a whore.
3. Keep your logical mind calm and your emotions engaged.
4. Tease her and go slow.
