A tantric point of view on self-control
In today’s age, the concept of self-control seems to have lost its relevance and meaning. Forget the hedonists, even many so-called spiritual gurus advocate that we do what we please, when we please. This way of thinking and living also includes indulging in sexual excesses.
In fact, many aspiring students approach many tantra teachers because they are looking for ways and means to enjoy just such unbridled erotic activity. They are under the illusion that tantra is a school of thought that proposes such excesses and provides the ways and means to do so.
This is utter perverted nonsense, and only underscores the fact that ancient tantra remains a mystery to most modern minds. The tantric arts are firmly based on the principles of tantra yoga and meditation, both of which require the practitioner to exercise considerable self-discipline in all matters.
To practice tantra, it is necessary to closely follow the instructions of the tantra master, whose main intention in the initial phase will be to achieve greater health and harmony in the body, mind and spirit. It is well known that any type of excessive behavior or activity does nothing but upset the natural physical and mental balance. So how could tantra advocate anything other than greater self control?
It must be remembered that any kind of spiritual pursuit requires discipline, and discipline must exist on both a physical and mental level. The tantric path is not about lack of sexual discipline. It is a holistic spiritual path that helps to achieve a higher state of being. In this elevated state, sexual activity becomes an act of worship. It is closely related to specific tantra rituals and meditation techniques.
Giving in to the desire to indulge in rampant sense indulgence of any kind causes massive dysfunction and disharmony in a person. However, today’s advertising and media teach us to indulge to our heart’s content.
Products and services to increase pleasure and emotion are the order of the day. To this, the tantra teacher can only say: this is the source of all your problems. That’s why your relationships aren’t working. That is why your body and mind are in such a state of turmoil.
Return to the natural way of life. Embrace the spirituality of moderation, which is the only way anything can be enjoyed to the fullest. Ancient Tantra is a path that will help you regain self-control and better appreciate your senses. Mastery of everything is possible only with self-control.
