The Best Sex – Position By Position
Sex positions are not only complicated, well, complicated, but they are also exhausting and distracting.
When you and your partner play tongue twisters, you often return to the tried and tested when you climax or are nearing climax. This is because simple positions are the most effective in bringing your partner to climax. Complicated positions keep your focus away from enjoying the real sensations, taking you out of your orgasm zone.
There’s a reason certain “simple” positions are bedroom staples; it’s because they work. Here are some tips on how to master the two classic positions to increase your pleasure meter.
Slowly Burning The CAT Missionary
The missionary position (girl on bottom, guy on top) has many advantages.
One of the best things you can do during missionary is to place a pillow under your back to help your body arch more. When the back is arched, the penis hits the G-spot even better due to the angle (remember that the G-spot is located along the lower belly or the roof of the vagina) and this also allows for deeper penetration. Raise your legs to your shoulders, as far back as you can comfortably, keeping your legs wide. With your hands, support the back of your knees to hold your legs up. This position increases sensitivity when you hit the G-spot and dead end. Sometimes you can even feel the head of your penis when it touches your belly. Keep your bodies close to each other.
Once this position has stoke your fire enough (don’t rush because this is a slow burner) you will feel the need to stimulate your clitoris. While maintaining the rhythm of the push, lower your legs and keep them straight as you lift your pelvis and squeeze your gluteal muscles. Ask her to lift her pelvic bone up so that the lower part of her abdomen (base of penis where pubic hair grows) stimulates her clitoris. This is called the Coital Alignment Technique or CAT. With slow, smooth, rocking motions, he should be able to penetrate you while stimulating your clit. Move with it to get the feeling that will help you reach your peak. Doing Kegels and moving your hips slightly up and down to meet his thrusts will give you an orgasm that is truly mind-blowing.
the lazy puppy
When doing it from behind, it’s very important to keep your back arched and butt lifted for deep penetration and safe G-spot stimulation. One advantage of this position is your freedom to reach and stimulate your clitoris. But don’t stay on all fours, slowly slide your knees down and lower yourself on the bed until you’re lying on your stomach. Keep your back arched and your butt lifted so that you can continue to thrust in a slow, sensual motion. You should support yourself as if you were doing push-ups. This type of lazy doggy not only provides increased stimulation due to increased friction, but you can still continue to please your clitoris in this position, either with your fingers or by tapping and rubbing your palm up.
These classic positions are not limited to what is mentioned here, you will have to experiment to find out what will maximize the pleasure you and your partner receive from each one. As long as you stick to the fundamentals, feel free to explore with different speeds, degrees of penetration, and breathing techniques.
It’s a good idea to set the stage, so to speak, with the appropriate preparations and foreplay. I encourage you to think about what is on your partner’s mind and communicate what feels pleasurable to each other.
