The 5 best ways to find love this holiday season
If there is a month that is great to flirt with beautiful girls, it is December. Think about it: cold weather designed for snuggling and intimacy, the festive season of the holidays, the romance involved in sharing Christmas and New Years together. What woman would NOT want to have a guy by her side during the holidays?!? It’s the lesson of “Really Love”: Everyone wants to be with someone on vacation.
So it’s up to you to take advantage of this special moment. Use the following 10 techniques to find the girl of your dreams NOW. May you have a Merry Christmas… And a Happy New Year…
1. Host a Christmas party. This is a great way to attract women. If there’s one thing that excites women emotionally and physically during the season of high spirits, it’s a man who surrounds himself with people during a festive time. He reassures them that this man will give them a good time, and surround her with people so that she is never alone. An important lesson to remember with women: they need to have a man for special moments like Christmas. No woman wants to be alone, so by establishing yourself as the man who has a lot of people around her, you automatically establish yourself as a desirable candidate. They automatically associate the positive vibes of the holiday season with you, and anything can happen from there.
So invite everyone you can think of – your friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances – to a festive gathering. Put on festive music for the holidays, have some holiday treats ready (cookies, eggnog, candy canes, etc.), and even dress up as Santa. Have a “Naughty” and “Nice” list, and promise the girls a good beating if they’re mean. Women LOVE this. If things go well, you might even have the girls in “Santa’s Private Sleigh.”
2. Ask her if she has been bad or good (and other teasing). Continuing on from the previous tip, make the most of the “naughty or nice” trick. Women LOVE a man who will turn them on emotionally, who will not be enslaved by them but will present HIMSELF as the judge of her suitability. Make it a big game: if she’s too nice, she’s boring and can’t have you, unless she “tones up” her acting. If she’s too naughty, then she needs to be punished, and you’ll be the one to give it to her (subtly excluding all the other guys as part of the party and making them look too nice). Either way, you come out a winner. This is my favorite technique for finding love, and it works because teasing is a great technique for attracting women, a lesson I go into a lot of in my online course.
3. Spread some holiday cheer on the dance floor. Joking around is a great way to show that you don’t take girls too seriously. Dancing is a great way to show that you don’t take life too seriously. Even if you suck at dancing, the fact that you go out and have fun will impress women in a big way. They love a man who can have fun and enjoy the Christmas season. Going out and having the time of your life dancing shows a woman that you will give her a good time during the joyful season. And in the end, that’s what they really want. So have fun, relax and invite a woman to dance. If she sees that you’re having a good time, believe me, she’ll want to join you, in more ways than one. Really!
4. Talk to Miss Lonely. While you’re at any party (yours, a work party, a club party, whatever), be sure to take advantage of my old “Real Love” lesson: NO ONE wants to be alone during parties! So if you see a girl standing/sitting alone or looking miserable at a Christmas party, be the “knight in shining armor” who walks up to her and cheers her up. Tell him a joke, he comments on the party, even teases her with “Come on, it’s the Christmas season, you can’t possibly be sitting here alone!” Women love a man who lifts them up, and if you can take her from a negative mood to a positive one, trust me, she won’t forget it. Just be the man who lifts her mood and you’ll be sure to see her again.
5. Use the mistletoe/midnight! Finally, never underestimate the power of mistletoe and the stroke of midnight in the New Year. Both are amazing accessories to prepare for a first kiss; nothing compares. They work especially well with women with whom you’ve had at least a few minutes of quality conversation. You don’t want to use it right away, it builds the suspense for an especially good kiss, but once you feel like things are going well, “conveniently” position yourself under the mistletoe. Don’t even hide the fact that it’s an obvious plot; plays: “WOW, we somehow managed to land under the mistletoe. How did THAT happen?” Believe me, if you add enough humor and charm, and you don’t need much, then women will be happy to comply.
The same goes for the stroke of midnight on New Year’s Eve. I met my current girlfriend two years ago on New Year’s Eve, using this same technique. We had talked for hours that day, but once 11 pm rolled around, I unashamedly said, “Can I let you in on a secret?” Since women LOVE secrets, she enthusiastically replied “Yes!” So I told her “It’s only an hour to midnight and I don’t have anyone to kiss. I’m thinking you can help me…” This of course made her laugh, but more importantly it gave her an “excuse”. . to want to kiss me in new year. By playing tricks and letting her KNOW that I wanted to kiss her, I earned her respect and, even better, her nod to a big New Year’s Kiss. You can do the same, simply by presenting your finding with your “problem” and asking HER to be part of the solution. As long as you stay calm and say it with a smile, she’ll be more than happy to help you with your “problem.” And I hope to give you a VERY Happy New Year!
Congratulations! You are on your way to a great Christmas season. Remember these five tips:
* Throw a Christmas party
* Ask him if he has been bad or good (and other jokes)
* Spread holiday cheer on the dance floor
* Talk to Miss Lonely
* Take advantage of the Mistletoe and New Year’s Midnight
and you are bound to have a great holiday season. Have fun and good luck!
