How to get your ex back when you live together
If you want to get your ex back, but you think you are in a difficult situation because you are still living with your ex, then you are very wrong. If anything, you have a distinct advantage over those who don’t live with their exes as long as they want them back, and I’ll tell you why.
In every “Get Your Ex Back” plan, guide, and strategy, there is the suggestion that you cannot get your ex back unless you first eliminate all contact with that ex, for an extended period of time. While this is good advice as it gives your ex a chance to miss you, it is also false to say that you can’t get your ex back without him.
The thing to say about cutting off is that the contact you need to cut off is the negative, desperate, sticky, needy conversations that so often take place between exes. If you live with your ex and you want your ex back, you just need to get away from the house as much as you can for a while. This is a good time to start putting in a lot of extra hours at work, spending a lot of time with some of your friends, and spending time with your family members as well. Leave early and come home late.
When you are forced to be in the presence of your ex, you must do your best to put on a happy face and make your ex think that you are having the time of your life. Believe it or not, this will make your ex prove to himself that you’re suddenly not happy BECAUSE of the breakup, and your ex will unconsciously start pursuing you.
When this happens, AND IT WILL, you need to be careful not to get carried away in a conversation about the relationship. If this happens, emotions will run high and it will seem impossible for you to maintain your facade. However, if you can keep a happy face and avoid those emotional conversations, you can win your ex back without losing touch.
