friendship pact
Are there times when you’re not sure if your friends will still be your friends? Do you have an understanding between your friends when things get tough?
Most of us don’t make pacts with our friends. We always think that everything will be fine and we don’t have to think about the unexpected. But things happen that we don’t expect for some time. Do you have a backup plan?
To make sure you know what to do in unexpected circumstances, you and your friend(s) should make a pact. To make a pact, you and your friends need to come together and list ways you will respect yourself and your friendship through thick and thin, and then sign a pledge to always be there for each other.
Through the years, hold on to your written covenant and when times get tough, pull it out as a reminder of the promises you made to each other. For example, your contract sheet may look like the following.
1. We promise to respect ourselves, in body, mind and heart.
2. We promise to follow our passions and interests.
3. We promise to keep our relationship strong, regardless of the circumstances.
4. We promise to respect each other’s boundaries at all times.
5. We promise to always encourage and support each other, regardless of the circumstances.
6. We promise to remain faithful to this pact of friendship without exception.
7. All members of this compact must sign the form.
By making these promises, you could solidify your friendship with another girl, and you could know without a doubt that you will be there for each other unconditionally. This makes friends feel much more secure with each other.
