Find a date or partner using your fridge
So you’ve decided once and for all that you’d really like to find and be with a great partner? Nothing wrong with that! However, like all resolutions, goals, or dreams, they tend to be most successful when consistent action is taken. If you want to find your special someone this year, then your fridge is the key to success.
As you say? Well… if you’re like most people, you regularly go to your fridge, many times a day, in fact. You go there too. You can even use magnets to stick reminders on the front of your fridge and see what’s on the fridge. Being close, opening, looking at your refrigerator is something you do constantly. Finding and being with someone special requires some consistency and action as well. Why not pair the two for greater success?
You see, having a resolution or goal is great. But many people struggle to achieve what they set out to do. It is often a series of many small steps that allow you to achieve the big goal. Therefore, taking small steps every day can help you achieve your goal. What is going to be important is to identify what are all the steps you need to follow/work to achieve your goal. Maybe you’re looking for the right people, maybe you’re into attraction or rapprochement. It could be learning how to determine who is a good match for you. It could be learning some great skills so you can have a fabulous relationship. Regardless of the steps you feel you could work on more of, I recommend that you write down all the little things you could do to finally reach your end goal. Let’s say you decide that your goal is to meet more women and get closer to them. Then you can make a list of little things you could do, like:
o Check out local social activities, events, cafes, sporting events
o Ask my friends about any women they know who might be a match
o Attend all invitations/parties
o Check out Denise’s information on finding and approaching women
o When I am outside I keep eye contact and smile with women
o Actively participate in ReadyDate
o Join a suitable internet dating site
o Develop a mindset to confidently approach women
Now my strong recommendation is to put your list on your fridge – use a magnet to stick it to the front of the fridge where you will see it every day. Then ask yourself the question when you see your list. “What am I doing today to get closer to my ultimate goals of meeting and getting closer to more women?” If you can answer positively, great, you are on the right track. All these small daily steps will help you reach your goal. If you’re ignoring your list, then maybe take it off the front of the fridge and stick it on one or two common items on your fridge. Milk is always a good option. When you start to ignore your list, it’s time to move it somewhere else. A mirror is always another good option! Your list should grab your attention and remind you to do something. Even if it’s a small thing per day, it’s a step and it’s time to congratulate yourself. Well done.
So remember, decide what you want to accomplish specifically, write a list of all the steps you could take to get to your end goal, then post your list in a prominent place, like the front of your refrigerator. Then make sure to take action, every day, using your list as a guide.
