10 tips to give a good blowjob
When we hear about low libido in a relationship, we usually assume it’s a woman’s problem. The fact is that men account for about 30% of all cases of low libido. As a woman, you can still do something to overcome your lack of sexual desire. Men (just like women) love oral sex. If you’re looking for ways to drive him wild in bed, here are some oral sex tips to get you started.
(1) Make him clean up first
Whether giving or receiving oral sex, you both need to be comfortable. This will not be possible if either of the two has a certain strong odor. It will be good if your man cleans up first. Better if you both take a sexy bath or shower together.
(2) Stay comfortable
If you’re not in a physically comfortable position to make love, you won’t be able to give him a good blow job. If you are standing or sitting, to give yourself plenty of room to move, you can sit on a stool or kneel on a pillow.
(3) Touch the surrounding areas
You can give him a cat bath (meaning, use your mouth to kiss him all over) and/or use your hands to “tease” his inner thighs, testicles, and perineum (the area between the base of his genitals). and the anus) which are all sensitive points for him to gradually get in the mood. To increase the sensation, you can use your fingertips to tickle the back of the testicles.
(4) Start licking it
You start by heating the tip of his genitals with your breath. There are some sensitive areas of the male genitalia for you to take note of. The tip or head of the genitals is more sensitive than the shaft, especially the rim around the head. The underside is more sensitive than the side, especially in the area near the tip (known as the frenulum). To be effective, you need to focus your licking effort on these sensitive spots.
(5) You put their genitals in your mouth.
After playing with her head, you slide her mouth down the shaft while placing your hand at the base of her genitals (to form a ring around the bottom end). This is to prevent you from choking if you accidentally ingest too much of their “popsicle stick.” It should take between a third and a half of the shaft. With your teeth hidden behind your lips, you press your lips against her shaft as you slide up and down the length of her semi-erect masculine hood. Do this slowly at times, savoring the pleasure of your action and then increasing the speed.
(6) Switch between mouth and tongue action
From time to time, you use your tongue again to lick the tip and bridle. You can experiment with the different types of licks in these two areas, probably by changing the shape or movement of your tongue. To give you more intense pleasure, you can also rotate your neck left and right so that it feels like your mouth is rolling up and down on your penis.
(7) Using your hands
If you want to stimulate him more strongly during oral sex, you can do it with your hands. Using your hands also opens up the possibility of stimulating his testicles and perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus) while continuing to give him oral stimulation on his male organ.
(8) blowing hot and cold
Oral sex can be fun if you can bring it to life by playing with the temperature and the sensations. You take a sip of warm water. Then you wrap it around your mouth and swallow it. Next, you take his penis to your mouth for 20 seconds. After this, you take a sip of cold water, swirl it around your mouth, and swallow. You resume the blowjob. The differences between hot and cold will feel great to him. An alternative way will be to put an ice cube in your mouth before taking your male organ. The warmth of your mouth combined with the occasional flash of chill will keep him on his toes.
(9) Do not neglect other areas
The scrotum and testicles are very sensitive areas that can drive him crazy when you lick his testicles and/or gently pull his scrotum down. Most men really enjoy it when their wives stick their tongues up their anus.
(10) Bringing it to the climax
You should never feel compelled to let him ejaculate in your mouth. It’s your decision and it’s determined by your comfort level about it. If he doesn’t want to swallow, ask him to give you a warning. He shouldn’t think less of you about your choice. You can keep stroking his orgasm with your hand.
