10 challenges to overcome when shopping with children
Kids grow up, need I say more? They usually outgrow their rags before they wear them out, so they can at least be passed on to someone else’s children. Babies in particular seem to grow bigger every day and that 6-9 month size soon becomes 9-12 and so on. Parents must constantly buy larger sizes and pass on yesterday’s size. There should be a “lending library” for outgrown baby things! And carrying them with you while shopping always presents challenges of its own. Here are some of the more stressful tasks involved and perhaps some helpful tips for tackling a shopping trip with Junior.
1. Whether you have a baby in a stroller or a toddler you can use a harness to control or even a slightly older baby who will hold your hand and cling to you, the first consideration is to keep them and their curiosity under control while you shop.
2. Limit the time you shop because that baby will soon be hungry, sleepy, or just plain upset that you’re not paying attention. Give them a hug and assure them that it will be over soon.
3. Carry a bottle or sippy cup with you because toddlers get thirsty and this will help keep them satisfied during a short shopping trip. Anything longer than half an hour should be split up going out and coming back after a snack close by.
4. Babies and very young babies should be happy if you bring them the pacifier or bottle full of juice. Remember that they are thirsty but do not yet know how to ask for it.
5. Older siblings can be helpful when shopping. You can help distract little brother or sister by entertaining them with games or talking. Shopping for those older kids can be easier if they help. Try cropping photos of the items you want and let them pick them out and put them in your shopping cart.
6. Checking out at a grocery store becomes challenging because of all the temptations the store places in the checkout aisle. Promise them that if they’re nice and don’t get upset, you could treat them to something after the store (ice cream or a donut from Dunkin Donuts). Better yet, just tell them no! Look for stores with “childproof” aisles where candy is not an option.
7. Try to shop when not many people are shopping at the same time. This makes the whole process faster and much easier because there will be no strangers wanting to touch your new baby or give your older child candy etc. Especially don’t try to shop when you and they are hungry!
8. The good, the bad, and the ugly of shopping with kids! Carrying them presents problems, but it can also solve some. When shopping for toys, you can let them “try out” a new game or toy to see if their interest stays or if they tire quickly. This will help reduce the number of toys sitting in your toy box collecting dust. They can also learn to be patient by letting them know that they can’t have it now, but must wait until later. Or tell them it’s for a friend or sibling and you want to know if they’ll like it. Use experience to teach and learn patience.
9. Online shopping can be a good alternative for older children. They can look but not touch!
10. Be patient and use a shopping trip to teach not only patience but also how to compare items like toys, games, and even clothes and shoes. They will learn what they may prefer and you will learn about their individuality.
